Community guidelines
A private club survives on its standards. These are ours — short, plain, and enforced.
The standards
- 01
Eligibility
Membership is strictly limited to people aged 20 or over. Any indication otherwise ends the account and is reported to authorities.
- 02
Consent always
Dynamics are negotiated, limits are honoured, and either party may pause or stop at any time without penalty or guilt.
- 03
Privacy respected
No doxxing, no screenshots shared outside a dynamic, no real-name pressure. Discretion runs in both directions.
- 04
Respect the roles
Findommes are not vendors to be haggled with; paypigs are not wallets to be emptied. Contempt for a role is contempt for the community.
The offences
- B1
Instant removal
Blackmail, threats, coercion, non-consensual exposure, ignoring a stated limit, scamming, or any financial pressure past a cap.
- B2
Escalating warnings
Harassment, spam approaches, profile dishonesty, pushing members off-platform in a first conversation.
- B3
Criminal referral
Suspected crimes — blackmail, fraud, exploitation — are preserved as evidence and referred to police. Membership status is irrelevant.